JUST BECAUSE I LOVE YOU – OUR LIFE…(photos by ewan)

I know this isn’t my domain. I almost am never on here with my voice, just my photos (which really are my voice anyway). This is Brianna’s realm. Her baby. But I came across these photos that I had completely forgotten that I had taken and just had to share them. They are from when Brianna and I went away for our anniversary in Toronto back in August. It was a perfect weekend. We stayed at The Royal York, got room service, went shopping, walked around and just enjoyed ourselves. It was only topped off by being able to see our good friends Peter and Tammy, as well as Justin and Michelle. We couldn’t have asked for a better get away in the middle of a hectic season.

So as I was cleaning out my computer (as I have been attempting to do for the last few months) I saw these. I quickly edited them while Brianna was out today and here they are to share. Taking these photos was one of my favourite things from the whole weekend. And even though I was going to save this for her birthday post, I think I will share this with her today (you can all read it too if you like). So Brianna, this is for you, just because I love you:

I believe that real love is just that, real. It is based in reality, not fantasy. It is loving not only the things you love about the other person, not only the things that they do for you, or how they make you feel. But loving even the things that you hate about them. The things that drive you nuts when you are having a bad day. Why? Because it is even in knowing every inch of the person you love, knowing the things that make them happy, that make them sad, that make them want to scream at you for putting the dishes in the sink even though the dishwasher is empty. It is in those things that you see their true self and yours as well. Without all of these things. Without the real and the truth, it is like spending your whole life at the bottom of a valley of mountains. If you only climbed to the top you could see how beautiful the world really is. It is the good and the bad. It is the sour and the sweet. It is everything that I wrap my arms around, I breath in every day, I consume and love and love and love. I take the beautiful, I take the ugly, I take the skinny, I take the fat, I take the laughing, I take the fighting. I take it all, because without it, I am nothing. I am nothing without you laying there beside me when I wake up in the morning, smiling your little smile to say hello. I am nothing without you telling me I am being stupid, because well, I am being stupid and need to be told sometimes. I am nothing without your hug, your kiss, your gentle way of making all of the bad in my bad day just disappear as if it never existed. You are Wonder Woman, you are Joan of Arc (well maybe not her, she was a little crazy). You are everything that dreams are made of and if this is a dream, may I never wake up. I love you. Forever. Happy (very, very, very early) Birthday!

-Ewan (photos by me)

March 13, 2010 - 3:04 am

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March 13, 2010 - 3:04 am

ohana photographers - pure perfection.

March 12, 2010 - 12:57 am

Anonymous - brianna, you are GORGEOUS!!! i love them all, but the second one is my absolute fave!

March 9, 2010 - 12:54 pm

Emily Faulknor - Bri you are sooo beautiful! Ewan, you are so sweet, what an amazing post of your wife and your love for her! Love it!

March 9, 2010 - 10:56 am

{15:51} photography - You two make my heart melt!

March 7, 2010 - 4:56 pm

AmyPunky Photography - This is so sweet!! Beautiful photos of your wife!

March 6, 2010 - 10:59 am

L*M - Perfect words to go with perfect photos! Brianna I love the one of your lips under the lamp shade!!

March 6, 2010 - 3:25 am

Cindy - very touching sentiments Ewan. Loved hearing your voice. Bri….. you are so beautiful.

March 6, 2010 - 2:37 am

Michelle Kane - Perhaps one of the most brilliant, simple, yet beautiful displays of love. This is sweet and pure and I joy in living vicariously through this endearing post of love and devotion. You are a gem, Ewan.

March 5, 2010 - 11:53 pm

oneshotbeyond - hair flipping is great!

March 5, 2010 - 11:45 pm

Alison - Ewan, it is nice to “hear” your voice here and what amazing words and photos. You have a beautiful heart, words and wife.

March 5, 2010 - 11:10 pm

Sarah Graham - I don’t have anything to say – just a little tear on my left cheek from this post…..

March 5, 2010 - 11:07 pm

Amanda and Justin - Ewan used the word real over and over again in this post and it’s such a fitting word for the two of you. Your love is real, your honest is real and your beauty is real. It’s beautiful to watch the two of you together and your honesty and love is inspiring.

March 5, 2010 - 9:48 pm

Marcie S. - Ewan, I really believe you need to give a tutorial to husbands on how to write love letters. I’m signing my husband up today. Beautiful pictures, but of course, Brianna is a beautiful subject. :)

March 5, 2010 - 9:41 pm

s h e r r y - !! :) These are GORGEOUS! <3 Your words are SUPER sweet. I love Brianna's shoes, and the jumping photo! Fabulous.

March 5, 2010 - 7:58 pm

Ericha - Exquisite! :) Such a beautiful post, Ewan.

March 5, 2010 - 7:51 pm

Jeremy - Ewan, you’re officially my hero. You And Brianna are both are amazing.

March 5, 2010 - 7:47 pm

L&J - Gorgeous photos! We love the way you love eachother, your love for each other is so real, it’s a do not hide behind it kind of love, the kind of love we all wish we had! You are right Ewan, your pictures are your words and they speak volumes about your crazy intense love for your wife! Amazing!

March 5, 2010 - 7:37 pm

Heather Kincaid - Brianna- you are so freakin’ beautiful. And Ewan, so talented. Love all of these so much.

March 5, 2010 - 7:08 pm

Anonymous - WOW…such amazing pics! You look GREAT!

March 5, 2010 - 6:44 pm

Laura - what a lovely post. what lovely words. too too cute!

March 5, 2010 - 6:09 pm

brittanie - .. to say i had the worst day of my life would be an understatement, and sitting here reading this bawling my eyes out has somehow made me happy. seriously im doing the “ugly cry” , you know when it starts to go beyond a couple tears..
this is incredible…this is the most real thing i have ever read..i have no words. other than thanks for making my day a million times better and loving each other in a way that brings me hope even though it’s only through computer screen contact.

March 5, 2010 - 5:42 pm

Samaria - Amazing! Brianna-you’re gorgeous!

March 5, 2010 - 5:36 pm

Denise - Lovely. I caught myself sighing a few times :)

March 5, 2010 - 5:19 pm

Sean - Sweetest. Post. Ever.

Ewan, I actually think that your photography speaks louder than your words – not because I don’t love your writing, I do and it’s brilliant, but look at Brianna in these. She’s so at peace, so silly, so fun, so content, so comfortable and there’s not a doubt in my mind it was purely to do with you right there with her.

March 5, 2010 - 5:10 pm

Cara - Oh Ewan this is so lovely and the words and images together are perfect. You two are sweet beyond words.

March 5, 2010 - 5:06 pm

Rebecca - Great shots! Thanks for sharing your words and pics. Can’t wait to see pics from Vegas!

March 5, 2010 - 4:55 pm

Rose - She is so beautiful!!! And the blog post … Gosh! What a beautiful present, what a wonderful surprise. Good one! :)

March 5, 2010 - 4:50 pm

Jeanette LeBlanc - You two are both so entirely beautiful. Your soul and spirit shine through your words. I’ve just gotta say, I am so head over heels in love with you both…your words, your images, your artistic vision.

Love. love. love.

March 5, 2010 - 4:46 pm

heather m. - Such a beautiful post Ewan!

March 5, 2010 - 4:38 pm

Heather - You are both so adorable…and meant for each other!

March 5, 2010 - 4:35 pm

Marissa Rodriguez - Ewan, this is so amazing! Such beautiful words, warmed my heart. You have a beautiful wife! Great post!

March 5, 2010 - 4:31 pm

Sandra - Brianna, you are so gorgeous! Ewan, you’re the sweetest guy ever! Thank you for sharing your love with us readers, you’re the most perfect couple.

March 5, 2010 - 4:22 pm

Kelli - Brianna, you are SO beautiful!! Love this post Ewan, so sweet.

March 5, 2010 - 4:12 pm

Cathy Empey - Beautiful Brianna, beautiful words from her loving husband Ewan.

Great post! Cannot wait to meet you both one day! xo

March 5, 2010 - 4:08 pm

ProBridesmaid - Honestly, you guys are too much!!!! I’m actually tearing up and I pride myself on not being mushy. Brianna – You look stunning. Ewan – You are a wonderful husband.

March 5, 2010 - 4:04 pm

Sara - Ewan, this is so so sweet! I almost had to stop reading it to avoid getting teary. The photos of Bri are beautiful too! I love her freckles so much! (You should convince her to smile with her teeth too..her smile is awesome!)

March 5, 2010 - 4:04 pm

Camilla - OMG this post is so beautiful…everything about it! I openly cried. In the library. Where sniffling earns you many, many dirty looks..!

March 5, 2010 - 4:01 pm

Kathrina - This just makes me smile :) Very sweet Ewan. Brianna, you’re beautiful!

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